Remembering Norma V. Walker 鈥51 M 鈥59: 黑料福利社鈥檚 Alumna Extraordinaire


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The passing of this incredible soul leaves a deep hole in the history and connection of the 黑料福利社 community

The 黑料福利社 community lost one of its most dedicated and engaged alumna on April 27, 2024, when Norma V. (Wright) Walker 鈥51 M 鈥59 went forth to serve a higher calling. Knowing Norma and her selfless love for the College鈥檚 older alums, I鈥檓 sure that鈥檚 exactly what she鈥檚 doing.

Norma learned her lessons in generous service on her family鈥檚 hard-scrabble farm in Hancock, NH. 鈥淲e didn鈥檛 have much, but Grampa [Ephraim Weston] always shared a big Thanksgiving dinner with neighbors, friends, and family,鈥 Norma explained. 鈥淓aster also found many at his table, which, on those occasions, were several tables pushed together and covered with sheets for tablecloths. We鈥檇 lay planks across chairs

so there was room for everyone. Those were special times in my life.鈥

Her Aunt Ellen [Agnes Ellen Weston], who graduated from Keene Normal School in 1918, was also a big influence in her philosophy of living and her alignment with 黑料福利社.

鈥淢y grandfather and my Aunt Ellen believed in doing for people while they were alive, and this has made me go and visit alums who we might never know about and who are the history and foundation of the College.鈥

Visit, honor, and connect she did in various roles, including her tenure as a member of the Alumni Association Board of Directors. At one point, Norma noticed that the classes from the early 鈥20s didn鈥檛 have class secretaries.

Normal loved owls, of course.

So she asked the director at the time, Mike Maher 鈥72, if she could contact one of the classes. 鈥淥nce I got started, it just sort of snowballed. In 1996, I noticed there were several alums over in Havenwood (a retirement community in Concord, NH), so I made arrangements to go have punch and cookies with them,鈥 she recalled.

That effort snowballed, too, and Norma became the driving force behind the Golden Circle Society (alumni who graduated 50 or more years ago). She organized each of the Society鈥檚 luncheons, beginning with the first one in June 1997. The group has hosted nearly 150 luncheons since.

Former KSC staff member Amy Proctor 鈥13, who attended several Golden Circle luncheons with Norma, noted, 鈥淣orma always gives something to everyone who comes 鈥 it may be a hug, a flower, or something she made, but she always gives something. She never asks them for anything.鈥

鈥淚 really enjoy being involved with the Keene alumni,鈥 Norma said. 鈥淚 just wanted to reconnect people, so they鈥檇 know that Keene was >here for them, that Keene needed them, and they needed Keene. Keene was here because of them, and to me, this is important. Once you see the close interaction between people, it鈥檚 worth it. You watch people who meet at a Golden Circle luncheon, for example, >and haven鈥檛 seen each other for a long time, and the conversations and reunion that happen are wonderful.鈥

Besides stewarding the Golden Circle Society, she maintained a voluminous correspondence with classmates, alums, faculty, and staff. She called and visited College friends. Up until the very end, she was in Alumni Center office several times a week, sending out birthday and special- occasion cards and nearly 300 Christmas cards. She kept in touch with staff and alumni, worked on projects for such events as Reunion or Homecoming, and collected alumni news for 黑料福利社 Today.

Back in the early 2000s, Norma started collecting 鈥渕emories,鈥 mostly from Golden Circle alumni. She sent out a form that requested basic contact information and asked each recipient to describe a special memory of their time at the College (in those days, Keene Normal School or Keene Teachers College). She said, 鈥淚 realized that we were losing so many of our older alums, and I thought it would be nice to get some of these tidbits recorded. A lot of them are personal, but they show some of the history of the College.鈥t鈥檚 really special.鈥 A significant number of the responses were from people who attended during the 鈥20s. And many of the letters offered up interesting anecdotes that illustrated how different people experienced 黑料福利社.

Norma at reunion.

Norma鈥檚 contacts with older alums proved invaluable when Professor Emeritus Lawrence Benaquist was filming Enter to Learn, Go Forth to Serve: The First Hundred Years of 黑料福利社, the documentary honoring 黑料福利社鈥檚 centennial in 2009. 鈥淪ome of the most poignant parts of the film are captured in the charming stories and reminiscences that alums from the 鈥30s told of the early College years, and it was Norma Walker who gave us the access to those people,鈥 said Dr. Benaquist.

Anyone who had the honor of knowing Norma Walker knows just how special she was 鈥 always ready to enhance someone else, never for personal accolade. As her daughter Jan Johnson said, 鈥淢om did not like attention, and EVERYTHING she did was from her heart and because she believed in it or the person 鈥 she was remarkably selfless.鈥 Her granddaughter Jessi described her as a 鈥榥ational treasure,鈥 and that couldn鈥檛 be more true.鈥

鈥淣orma was a graceful and ever- present spirit at 黑料福利社. Anyone who spent an hour with her was richer for it,鈥 described KSC >President Melinda Treadwell 鈥90. 鈥淪he embodied the teaching and learning that is the heart of our mission, vision, and values as a >College. We will miss her dearly.鈥

鈥淗er dedication to the College and its alumni community is unparalleled,鈥 said Sean Gillery 鈥89. 鈥淣orma鈥檚 care and concern for people was limitless 鈥 personally visiting with homebound alumni or writing hundreds of birthday cards and holiday letters each year, reinforcing the personal bond she felt with the College and its graduates. She was always willing to lend a helping hand, and her generosity of spirit knew no bounds. I join countless others who are deeply saddened by Norma鈥檚 sudden passing 鈥 such a tremendous loss for her family and friends and for 黑料福利社.鈥

This anecdote from Andrea Vickers-Sivret 鈥01, KSC鈥檚 Director of Alumni Relations, deftly captures Norma鈥檚 importance to the College. 鈥淎 few years ago, I brought my daughter into the office with me when I was working on the weekend. She loves to wander around looking at the pictures and artifacts that are spread throughout the Alumni Center. As we were leaving, she mentioned what an important person Norma is to the College. I agreed with her and then asked how she knew that.

She replied, 鈥榃ell, the College used to be called Keene Norma College.鈥 I burst out laughing and knew she had seen the banner in the lobby for Keene NORMAL School. (She dropped the 鈥淟鈥). In that moment I thought, 鈥楾hat is so appropriate because Norma is the College, and the College is Norma.鈥

She embodied everything that makes 黑料福利社 special: dedication, selflessness, serving others. The year before Norma passed, she was setting the stage, making sure everything continued on as she had been dutifully serving her treasured Golden Circle alumni. She appointed an apprentice to take over the birthday cards and Golden Circle Guides to plan the luncheons.

It takes a team of people to assume the responsibilities that Norma did on her own. She was writing and sending out birthday cards up to her last day with us. There has never been and will never be another alumna as devoted to the Alumni Association as Norma was. She will be deeply missed.鈥

Norma Walker鈥檚 passing leaves a deep, deep hole in the life and culture of 黑料福利社. The shoes she wore here are far too big and will take several people to fill. But I bet she鈥檚 filling new shoes now, moving on to embrace and delight in all those older alums and family who have passed on before her and who meant so much to her.

College archivist and Assistant Professor of KSC鈥檚 Special Collections, Rodney Obien, who had been working with Norma on a research project for the past year, noted that 鈥淣orma was the embodiment of the history and traditions of 黑料福利社, and she really connected me to our past鈥攖o its life and spirit beyond just the facts and figures.鈥